PRODUCTS & SERVICES
I have the God given vision to build people to recognize the greatness within them and to recognize opportunities to soar in every season of life. I am better able to do this through various programs, products and servcies.
Eniiwaju etomi programs
to look forward to
What are you Building?
Monthly meeting with a guest.
Areas include character, finances, legacy, career, leadership, spiritual growth, health, education, network, koinonia etc.
Before You Say I Do with Pastor Eniiwaju Etomi
This is a project that prepare singles, youths for successful marital lives. This is a meeting that holds every forth night
In love with In-laws and Out-laws
This program holds once a month
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"Discovering Me” with Pastor Eniiwaju Etomi
Have you every wondered what I am here for? Sat down and thought who am I meant to be? Stood up and not known what to do or where to go in life?
These courses look to help you unlock and build on your purpose, what you may or may not already know and help launch you into where you need to be.
- Finding Purpose (Group / 1-2-1 Training)
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SELF AWARENESS TRAINING
- Understanding your gifts and talents
- Emotional Intelligence Training
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My Case is Urgent with Pastor Eniiwaju Etomi
The power of prayer is ever prevailing.This event is specially organised for people going through difficult situations that require immediate spiritual intervention. My Case is Urgent holds on the last 3 days in March, June, September and December.
“A wise man learns from his mistakes, a wiser man learns from the mistakes of others, the wisest man learns from the successes of others.”
- Eniiwaju Etomi
Book Products
"Oh My God, Did I Say I Do?"
After spending most of my life learning from God’s revelationary wisdom and the realities of many I have helped in marriage, I finally birthed this book for newly married couples to learn and love right.
Book Excerpt
INTRODUCTION
- What is marriage?
The Oxford Dictionary defines marriage as the ceremony, act or contract by which a man and a woman become husband and wife. The definition is, however, inadequate for a child of God. This is because, if marriage were to be a contract, this would mean it could have clauses for opting out as other contracts do. Therefore, I define marriage as a covenant between a man and a woman with a commitment to remain married for the rest of their lives regardless of their differences, personalities and the challenges they may encounter in the course of the marriage. (Matthew 19:6) - What is a covenant? It is a mutual agreement, the writing containing the agreements, a contract entered into between God and a person or people. In marriage, the writing of this agreement and its modus operandi is contained in the word of God ‒ THE BIBLE.
The 5 essential Cs in marriage
i. Covenant
ii. Communication
iii. Compromise
iv. Commitment
v. Completion
TEXT: Genesis 21:22–27
Covenant
Let us note the things that are vital in a covenant:
- In any covenant the weaker submits to the stronger.
- There is an exchange of gifts. The stronger gives to the weaker everything he/she has and the weaker submits himself/herself to the stronger. Just as God owns all things and gives us all His resources, we, in return, surrender our lives to Him.
- There is always an oath of allegiance to each other (Genesis 21:23–24)
- There is always a witness. Phicol was a witness (Genesis 21:22). God is a witness in every marriage covenant (Malachi 2:14). All attendees of the wedding are also called witnesses.
- There is a place where the oath is sworn.
- There is always a token of the covenant (Genesis 9:15‒17; Genesis 17:9‒11).
All the conditions above are fulfilled in marriage.
Consequences of breaking covenants
Read the story of the Gibeonites in Joshua 9:1‒27. Joshua and the elders of Israel entered into a covenant with the Gibeonites vowing not to kill them, although Israel was unaware of the Gibeonites’ deception at the time. Several generations later, King Saul breached the covenant by killing the Gibeonites, and Israel began to experience famine (Deuteronomy 7:1–5).
See Exodus 34:12 – Despite the fact that this covenant between Israel and Gibeon was unacceptable, and deceptive ‒ because God had commanded Israel not to enter into any covenant with the Hivites ‒ and the fact that the covenant was in defiance of God’s instruction, God still honoured it and permitted the consequence of breaking the covenant for Israel (severe famine) ‒ see 2 Samuel 21:1–3.
God honours marital covenants and supervises marital relationships. He says He hates divorce (Malachi 2:13–16). We must understand that marital vows are for life. Therefore, no situation or differences must be big enough to break the vow.
CONCLUSION
Whenever a covenant is broken unjustly, the person that breaks it faces the consequences of doing so.
